Halo bloggers,
hope you all have a wonderful day.
Till then,
Phemilla
hope you all have a wonderful day.
Touching? Well, I am sure everyone have their own opinion about touching. As human all of us love to have a nurturing, affectionate human relationship but what causes us human to abondon the precious gift of touch. Are we the product of strict environment where touch is restricted in the name of culture, religion or moral? It is proven that babies who are touched more grow healthier physically and have higher IQ and EQ level. Oh, not to forgot, even animals can feel the love of touch and feel pampered. Just look at your cute cat or dog at home, they will respond lovingly when we human stroke and caress them gently. Pets are even closer to the members of the family who always touch them affectionately compared with those who are strict with pets.
Let's not forget, hugging can get rid of many diseases and will give an overall health benefit such as emotionally fulfilled and have better human relationship. Lack of touching also causes a person to be more selfish, unforgiving and gets angry easily. Besides, touching it's also important in relationship especially in marriage. Woman would feel more loved,caring and her oxytocin hormone, a hormone that is responsible for feel good and happiness increases when her partner hug her affectionately. Thus, touching could always gives a spark back into a relationship. Somehow, touching is also one way of communicating. The way you touch will leaves a different kind of impressions and feelings. Especially when someone is sad in sorrow, a sense of touch could comfort a person to feel calm. From my opinion, every touch should comes with a sense of respect with love. But, be careful of where you touch, and who you touch, that matters too.
So, I guess we all need to value how special we are as a human. Think about it, how can touch offers so much beneficial things in life but we tend to avoid the importance of it? And how can we forget to celebrate humanities through touch? Hmmm..maybe a married couple is a perfect candidate to explore this further. ;)
Till then,
Phemilla

Well said. I like to add that we should touch people by words too. If you have got people that you really care about, just make an effort to call them up and say, "Hello, how are you?"
ReplyDeleteThere's just a sort of warmth to listen to people's voices, just like the touch that you mentioned.